Will You Ever Have Your "Ah Ha" Moment?

reproduced from my linkedin article

I have always marveled at those who find, at a very early stage of their lives, their own goal or meaning - their own "Ah-Ha" moment - where everything just seems to fit and fall into place. For them, their path and raison dete becomes so clear, and whatever they do is designed to fulfill this path. 

However, I suspect for the majority of us, this "revelation" of our role and place in the world takes a bit longer. Perhaps for some, this never happens.  For me, it took over 40 years, and it was a slow simmer process building up to that magical moment when it hits you. And when it does hit you, you wonder why you haven't realised it earlier before.

I believe a key "need to have" is our mental condition - are we in a state of mind to recognise the "ah-ha" moment? More importantly, once it hits you, are we in a position to SEIZE the moment and ACT upon it. Yes, timing and luck has a large part to play as well, but this only sets the stage. As the Bard said, the whole world's a stage, and we are but players. We need to be the protagonist in this stage, and take action.  

Carpa Diem "Seize the Day" 

1. Pay attention to your thoughts and feelings. Don't overlook or brush aside anything new that comes your way. Continually reference this new idea or activity to your own values. If it matches, take heed and move to the next step
2. Is the timing right?  Be realistic and truthful about this. Readiness is as much a state of mind as it is the set of circumstances. 
3. Do you have support? This is critical. No man is an island. And especially when it comes to getting out of your comfort zone, a good support structure is crucial in reinforcing your sanity and self worth
4. Set realistic targets. There is much said about creating visions and goals, but these can be too lofty and far ahead. Have road markers along the way which are achievable, and check these off when you accomplish them.
5. Celebrate your successes and milestones! Make sure you especially do this with your supporters and loved ones. It nurtures and sustains you
6. Be prepared to fall down - but get up quickly! Nothing is ever always smooth. Life is a jungle gym - sometimes you need to swing sideways in order to move forward

Above all - Take Action! Don't just think about it....do it! Even a small step is an action step moving forward.

Have you had your "Ah-Ha" moment? if yes, how did you recognise it and act on it?